These were collected ideas from various sources, some adapted:
Make your husband a CD of devotional songs he loves.
Sew him something that he can wear or use.
Wear the bracelet he bought for your birthday; use the presents he gets you. Save all the cards he writes.
Leave him little love messages where he'll find them.
When he does something special for you, write him a thank you note. If the paper is scented that's even better.
Remember to thank him for the things he does for you and the children.
Celebrate his completion of that large remodeling job or that term at night school.
Don't toss out or complain about his worn, favorite shirt.
Keep his favorite chair in a prominent place even if it's old looking.
Call him at work just to say, "Hi".
Accompany him on a walk or drive even if its just to get groceries or to cash a check at the bank.
Hold a light for him when he repairs that motor.
While he's trying to finish yet another home-improvement project, bring him a snack or lemonade.
Use loving addresses like "Sweet heart", "Srestha", "Swami", "Prabhuji, or "Pati".
When he is away in the evening, keep a porch light on for him.
Try to get up and greet him if he's forced to stay out late.
Cover for him if he accidentally misses a social event or he's sneaking in a nap when a unexpected visitor is at the door.
Across from a crowded room, let him see you looking at him.
When passing something to your husband, let your hand brush against his.
Along with the usual wedding band, wear bindi, sindhur, conch bangles, and other signs of a very much married woman.
Point out which of his good qualities you see in the children.
Tell him he's a good father. Tell him he's intelligent. Tell him he's attractive.
Compliment him on his good editorial, admire his landscaping, or the porch swing he built. And be sincere.
When your children say something good about their father, tell him what they said.
Make a fuss on his birthday, your anniversary and when he’s sick.
Be his sounding board as he discusses ideas for solving problems at work.
Gaze into his eyes when he talks.
Tolerate any grumpiness as Krishna's service.
Act jealous once in a while, even if you're not.
Don't say anything when his hair begins to turn grey or he's gaining a large belly- he already knows.
Do not raise your voice at him or talk back, even in the worst of fights.
Encourage him in his growing responsibilities. Assure him of your support and of your prayers for him.
Make observations instead of demands. "When you have time, I think the hot water heater needs checking"
Learn his mom's best recipes.
At meal time, give him the best portions, the biggest piece of pie.
Learn how to serve prasadam nicely and in the correct order. Serve to his full satisfaction before taking some.
Glorify his cooking and always take at least a little second helping.
After he showers on a cold morning, hand him a towel you warmed up in the dryer.
On a cold night, make sure he has enough blankets, and warm up his pillowcase in the dryer for a few minutes right before he takes rest.
Have clean and well made bed ready for him each evening.
Do a chore for him that he hates doing.
Let him enjoy a plan-free, chore-free, relaxing weekend.
Offer him a back or foot rub when he is tired from work all day, Use a favorite lotion to massage his achy feet.
Have clean clothes ready and a glass of fresh squeezed orange juice in the morning.
Organize the little things for him he needs before heading out for the day such as his bead bag, lunch, phone, keys...
Keep track of his mail and important phone calls while he's away.
Remember... the little things count!
Make your husband a CD of devotional songs he loves.
Sew him something that he can wear or use.
Wear the bracelet he bought for your birthday; use the presents he gets you. Save all the cards he writes.
Leave him little love messages where he'll find them.When he does something special for you, write him a thank you note. If the paper is scented that's even better.
Remember to thank him for the things he does for you and the children.
Celebrate his completion of that large remodeling job or that term at night school.
Don't toss out or complain about his worn, favorite shirt.
Keep his favorite chair in a prominent place even if it's old looking.
Call him at work just to say, "Hi".
Accompany him on a walk or drive even if its just to get groceries or to cash a check at the bank.
Hold a light for him when he repairs that motor.
While he's trying to finish yet another home-improvement project, bring him a snack or lemonade.
Use loving addresses like "Sweet heart", "Srestha", "Swami", "Prabhuji, or "Pati".
When he is away in the evening, keep a porch light on for him.
Try to get up and greet him if he's forced to stay out late.
Cover for him if he accidentally misses a social event or he's sneaking in a nap when a unexpected visitor is at the door.
Across from a crowded room, let him see you looking at him.
When passing something to your husband, let your hand brush against his.
Along with the usual wedding band, wear bindi, sindhur, conch bangles, and other signs of a very much married woman.
Point out which of his good qualities you see in the children.
Tell him he's a good father. Tell him he's intelligent. Tell him he's attractive.
Compliment him on his good editorial, admire his landscaping, or the porch swing he built. And be sincere.
When your children say something good about their father, tell him what they said.
Make a fuss on his birthday, your anniversary and when he’s sick.
Be his sounding board as he discusses ideas for solving problems at work.
Gaze into his eyes when he talks.
Tolerate any grumpiness as Krishna's service.
Act jealous once in a while, even if you're not.
Don't say anything when his hair begins to turn grey or he's gaining a large belly- he already knows.
Do not raise your voice at him or talk back, even in the worst of fights.
Encourage him in his growing responsibilities. Assure him of your support and of your prayers for him.
Make observations instead of demands. "When you have time, I think the hot water heater needs checking"
Learn his mom's best recipes.
At meal time, give him the best portions, the biggest piece of pie.
Glorify his cooking and always take at least a little second helping.
After he showers on a cold morning, hand him a towel you warmed up in the dryer.
On a cold night, make sure he has enough blankets, and warm up his pillowcase in the dryer for a few minutes right before he takes rest.
Have clean and well made bed ready for him each evening.
Do a chore for him that he hates doing.
Let him enjoy a plan-free, chore-free, relaxing weekend.
Offer him a back or foot rub when he is tired from work all day, Use a favorite lotion to massage his achy feet.
Have clean clothes ready and a glass of fresh squeezed orange juice in the morning.
Organize the little things for him he needs before heading out for the day such as his bead bag, lunch, phone, keys...
Keep track of his mail and important phone calls while he's away.
Remember... the little things count!